Bride asks if it’s wrong to tell bridesmaid to get bigger dress or not be in wedding.
Picking a bridesmaid dress to flatter the bodies of everyone in a wedding party can be tough. And one bride is asking if she’s in the wrong for telling her bridesmaid that if she doesn’t size the dress up, she’s out of the wedding.
The bride took to Reddit to ask if she was in the wrong for setting the ultimatum after her bridesmaid pointed out that the dress wouldn’t fit her chest.
The bride says she already picked the dresses:
I am getting married in the fall and LOVE the bridesmaid dresses I picked out with my sisters. They fit them well, and show a little cleavage but not too much. I’m pretty conservative and my wedding will probably represent that.
Her cousin is a bit bustier:
Anyway. One of my cousins is also a bridesmaid. She is super short and skinny, but big chested. Anyway. She chose a size that is really small, so it fits her body well, but her boobs are literally falling out of it. She originally tried it on with a bra and over half the bra cups were showing. Then she took off the bra and we are about 1 cm away from a nip slip.
She suggested altering the dress or going a size up:
Anyway. I told her that the color looked really good on her, but that I was worried about how the dress would hold up during dancing and the reception. I suggested she get a larger size. I also suggested getting the dress altered so it would fit both her body and her boobs.
Her cousin said no:
Well, she refused. She said she loves how the dress looks on her and she wants to feel confident when she is standing up there with me.
Now idk what to do. AITA for telling her she HAS to fix the dress or not be in the wedding?
The people of Reddit say that the ultimatum isn’t fair.
If the size dress she’s wearing is her size then it sounds like you picked a style of dress that shows boobies when someone has big ta-ta’s. Why would you make her buy a size that’s too big because you didn’t think about how different body types would fit a low cut dress?
Tale as old as time—bride demands everyone wear the same style and then is grumpy when it doesn’t look great on everyone. Your bridal party can look totally uniform OR it can look good and just be the same color or whatever, choose one (unless you pick your friends based on body type, which is gross).
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May 17, 2021 at 06:34AM